Ok, thanks, XXXXX XXXXX I do think he struggles with "love". I have very strong feelings for him and he is aware of this.
How do I initiate serious talk without him shutting down? As he does with in any "emotions" talk.
I doubt very much that I would get him to a couples counselling.
I would just like a bit more of a commitment I guess after a year of seeing each other. To be honest, I don't feel like our relationship progressed a big deal since we met. We still have fun time seeing each other, but have completely separate lives otherwise.
I will have a go and hopefully won't need any more of your help!