Hi. Welcome. I am a Licensed Master Social Worker with more than 20 years experience working with individuals and families on a variety of issues.
i will be in my office in about 2 hours or less. i hope you cab wait for me.
I will come bck to the chat then.
See you in bit and thanks.
I am here. so sorry I wasn't in my office when you first wrote.
Yes. i am here. How are you and how are things?
Are you here?
Yowza. sounds like more of the same to me and I truly don't see a great outcome here.
I call it as I see it and i think you appreciate that in me.
Not good....any of it!
This is a guy who has not treated you well and still doesn't/
I think its a bad cycle you are in...you are not going to make him any different. If it were me, i would be moving on and i know how painful and how much you love him.
I know you do and I support you in whatever you choose, i just don't see this being an easy road for you.
it is a dynamic that truly hurts you.
It is not about this other girl...there were tremendous difficulties before she entered in the picture.
I dont know if he will or not, but I can only follow my gut here and none of what you are saying to me leads me to believe there will be a healthy relationship.
i hear all of how you feel....i really do and I wish i could say otherwise.
My goal is always for you to feel your best.
and this man doesnt do that...you worry, you guess, you wonder. that is not a healthy way of relating.
that is not how a relationship should be or how you should feel when being connected to another. the fact that you feel those things gives you insight into how you will most likely feel all the time.
he hasnt responded to your
This is what you wrote above. "He hasnt replied to my text"
so I think you need to take a step back and let him come to you. this is not healthy for you to continue this cycle.
no it does not.
my focus is on you and not him.
and your focus should be the same.
its all up to you what you want for yourself and believe you deserve. period end of story.
then seek that out and demand it!
well keep me posted. follow your heart.
time will tell how it plays out and i will be interested to hear how it goes.
excellent. That is what I want to hear. now get out there and do something for you right now.
my pleasure as always. come back and let me know how YOU are doing.
talk soon. Please take a moment again to offer a rating of my work.