to a me everything was fine. no signs or maybe i did not pick up on them. he said he had been thinking about divorce for 3 years. really. we were happy and our sex life was great. just one day to another. in the last past 3 years he spend all our money. he just doesn't seem to care. he is diabetic and is narcissitic. all to himself. i carter and spoiled him and made him my life but i guess it wasn't enough.