Have to say that is the usual totally unhelpful stuff I keep getting! Do you really imagine that I wouldn't work on her self-confidence? Do you really believe that even being passionate about something will elp any child deal with a situation they hate passionately? I've lived with this situation for over 10 years now on almost a daily basis. I've searched for help only to come up against brick walls of non-understanding. Always the answer seems to be - force the child into a mould she can't fit into ......... how caring, responsible or even humanistic is that? How is the child protected by such treatment? Why are our jails so full of people who suffered this problem? Why do we have suicides in children who dread school? Have you people any idea of REAL life at all? Not happy with this response at all!!!!