I think you will handle it as you always do...with dignity and grace and you will acknowledge her with a warm hello and go from there.
We can chat when you come back online.
I hear how angry you are but I am not sure that doing any of that at a wedding is the most appropriate place. It is the bride's special day
I just think the anger is getting the best of you around this.
I am not thinking of her I am thinking of the person whose wedding it is
and you also. I dont think it will get you anywhere. she hasn't shown resp
ect for you in quite some time and she wont now
my suggestion would be then not to greet her and just ignore her and the whole situation
ok then when
I also dont think the email is a great way to go...involving others doesnt do anything other than involve others
I understand but I think this would not achieve anything positive for you
if they know her and see her behavior then it is clear. It is truly irrelevant what others think and it doesnt look good to involve others in the hope she has some consequences.
My goal is for you to heal from this and the anger and worry less about her and when she will get hers. focus on you and your marriage and let her dad heal how he needs to
but I truly understand you desires and your anger
none of this serves the greater good for you or your husband
if she is ignored by you at the wedding she is not walking all over you. and you are making a choice to step out of they cycle and that is not letting her walk all over you
I know you are not in love with my answers but I can only give you my honest opinions
well he needs to figure out what works for himself around that
time to let her power and control over you go. ignore her and have the dignity and grace that I know you have
it is your choice to let her affect you in this way and you can choose to not suffer
walk away with your head held high
I truly believe it is time to let it go. For YOU
you had hope and that is a good thing but now it is clear where she is and so it is time to work on moving forward for yourself and to begin healing
that may be true but again right now the focus is only on you
there is no rhyme or reason sometimes and time will tell where this ends up but right now your healing is crucial.
FYI: I need to wrap up in a minute as I am leaving for a barbecue.
I think the ache remains but it gets easier over time
thank you. take some time to breathe and just be!
please touch base again and let me know how you are doing.