Yes I think she does have the fear of the abandonment. But what i dont understand is that we already had sex, so she should have been already comfortable with getting into that level of intimacy with me?
So are you saying that that fear of abandonment or fear of me being a womanizer kicked back in suddenly again in her mind?
I am not really a womanizer! aren't girls smart enough to realize if someone is not?!
by the way I did ask her that if she still has trust issues, and she said no!!
ok, for the time being, after what happened last night; shouldn I give her some time and space by not txting her or calling her maybe for a day or two?
so yesterday she texted me that shee feels so bad and that she vener wanted to hurt me. and i told her that dont worry about me I am not hurt, and told her that do what you gotta do, and i ll be there for you if you need me as your friend.
she also replied to me again stating that she does like me but she cant give me what I want and that she does not wanna mess with me.
do you think thats just her nice way of breaking up with me for good?
should I tell her that I know what I want and that she should base her decision on what she really wants?