Hello Jason, following on from our chat, I finding it very difficult with his lack of contact, how do i deal with this
I tried very hard to not contact him but I made a mistake of speaking to a friend who said, I should check on him because he may be not coping well and asking himself the same question, so I text him to say, Not meaning to intrude, but how are you?
His Reply was Hey! all good I guess, How are you?? I replied and said I am ok thank you, XXXXX XXXXX things to sort out at work and that I have collecting his camping kit. (this was in my old house I am renting out, which I needed to remove stuff before the tenants moved in. I did not want to contact him so I brought his stuff 1hour and 30minutes away. this text was today. I made no contact for two days.
I will see your point. I will try and write the one final text probably on the weekend. But will try and resist it
Hello Jason, I did what you suggested and sent him a text, telling him it will be my last text and that I wish he is well, I also said I was looking forward to lunch and a walk by the river next as he suggested.I told him I respect his need for space and whatever he decides I hope to remember him in a good light. He replied and saidSorry, I am not purposefully ignoring you.... I just dont know what to say to you. I am looking forward to lunch too. I feel I will be able to resist contact now.