So yeah I'm not sure what do in this situation
No we didnt, even thou he kept promising we would. We spent time together before that.
Well in class and after class, like I said he gave me rides after school, and he would park his car in the parking lot because we ended talking to each other for at least for a hour and its okay. He took me out to eat, to the movies and has taken me home after the last day of school which is aXXXXX we had dates before
I'm not sure if I could do that, I mean when we texted before I said to him that I like hanging out with him, he said why?, I told him I dont wanna say, he said tell me..., I told him that I liked him, that when he said I have to be honest with you, Im not looking for anything serious...just so you know....I said oh..., then he said he was in no spot for it right now
Well I thought we could be just friends but Im scared that he isnt going to want that because we went further before, also I havent texted him in a week and he has never texted me back, Im afraid to text him again just to have him ignore me or something, he kept telling me before that he felt so bad and like a asshole because he didnt have time to hang
We have never talked on the phone honestly, the only time I called him was when we had a planned date, he told me to call him in the morning so he can pick me up, which never happened because he overslept
I was thinking about texting him like a month or two later, because as you said he never likes to commit and I just now realized that, Im always texting him first, he only texted me first like two or three times, but he started talking to me first and suggested that we hang out more, ehhhh he even took me to his house once, but do you think he might text me randomly one day?
Thank you for the advice :) I really appreciated it!
Hello, sorry I took so long to reply but yes I decided to talk to him and things got way more complicated then it should be.
Yeah, I was wondering If I could get some advice? its not as bad as before.
we ended up becoming friends with benefits. He kept kissing me and hugging me after the sex. (which I don't know why, he kept wanting to hug me) He was very affectation with me. At one point he told me he wasn't up for the sex anymore and didn't want to complicate us, but still wanted to talk and hang out with me. I took it a little personally and got upset. He said sorry, that he didn't want to upset me. I ended up forgiving him. After saying saying sorry he said he wanted to watch a movie with me. Two weeks later after saying lets be friends, he kissed me and grabbed me. He contradicted himself. Now I'm a bit confused to what he wants. He is being all sweet & nice to me. I admit I tried stop talking to him before because I was angry at him at one point. It was 2 weeks before he "accidentally" called me and we started talking again. He has been a bit more open to me. I was texting him, telling him how I wish I didn't put myself down so much and he told that I shouldn't put myself down, that I was better then that and have no reason to be down on myself.He told me that I was smart girl who had things going for me. I told him that I didn't like my looks and he said that I needed to get over my insecurities and I look fine. He also told me that I was pretty nice and sarcastic and I said I don't think so. He said I think so and that's all that matters. Now he is being distant with me again. I have no idea why he would want to keep in touch with me... So any ideas why he is doing this? and what should I do?