Thank you for contacting Just Answer. I am so very sorry to hear about what is going on. I understand how upsetting this is to you. However if she says that she doesn't want to see you anymore you need to ask her why. This way you will get her side of the story.
Are you there so that we may continue with our chat so that I'll understand better what is going on?
If things were so perfect for 7 years maybe you can chronicle what has happened in the last year and a half so that things will be clearer to me in being able to help you with this.
Let me read what you wrote and I'll respond.
Explain to me what you mean by, "I started renovations a couple of months these entities really started to attack me and I couldn't sleep. I had 2 exorcism each time over of these things were excised from my body." I don't understand what this means exactly.
May I also ask you your age and your girlfriend's age.
It's hard to say what is making her move away, not knowing her except that she may be upset by what is going on with you. Have you tried seeing if she would be willing to go to couples counseling with you. If she won't go with you, it might be helpful for you to see someone alone to help you through this.
Will she be willing to go to a couples copunselor?
OOPS!!! counselor counselor
Sorry --- couples counselor
If she is not willing to go to your Chinese medical doctor then ask her what she would like to do. Start with where she is. She may then be more amenable to looking into what's going on.
Other than that, I think it might be a good idea for you to see a therapist to sort things out so that you are not dealing with this all by yourself.
I'm sorry to say that there is nothing we can say to force her to do what she doesn't want to do. That's why I am saying that you now start with what she would like to do. That is one way to get started.
Let me know your thoughts.
I see that you stepped out of this chat. I will be available until 7:00 PM and will be out for the evening. Feel free to enter whatever you wish. If you should enter anything after 7:00 PM I will respond upon my return.
Again, I ask, would she go to a couples counselor if she thinks its not her problem but would be there to support you? Otherwise, I'm afraid there is nothing that you will be able to do if she is not willing to get help together with you to sort out your problems.
I'm here if you neede me. I am going to sleep shortly but I will check back with you tomorrow.
Try asking and see. But because of the responses you gave don't make it seem like it is her fault, otherwise she will not cooperate. See if she wants to work on things together to get things back on track. The couples therapist will then take it from there --- work on her issues and work on your issues. If the couples therapist thinks that either of you needs individual therapy then s/he will go from there.