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Could you maybe give me some more details? What do you argue about? What has she said you need to do? What are you willing to do? I know that is a lot of questions but the answers to these questions and any details you give might be helpful in my response. Thank you!
I noticed you still have not accepted my answer. i know my response may not have been what you wanted to hear, but it was an honest answer based on the information provided. If you have any further questions please feel free to ask. I really do want to help you. Otherwise, would you do me a favor and leave positive feedback. This is the only way I am compensated for my time and service to you.