I am leaving my office in 10 minutes for a few hours but will be back, but fill me in.
how have u been?
all is well here, just a quick update
yes that would be you! :-)
went to the place where "mr man" lives last weekend with my daughter to meet my sister and her kids, but didnt tell him anything
the last two weeks he has started texting me again but satill didnt tell him i would be there but he figured it out from my bb display pics and called. he said he would contact me and maybe we could meet up for a drink or something i told him he knows where i am so let me know. i didnt contact him and neither did he and we came back home on sunday
first thing monday am aa bbm "I am sorry, I chickened out, cause I know what could happen"
i told him not to sweat it, and got 2 more "sorry's" after that
same old same old nonsense, eh?
good for you though as you sound strongo
why make the "offer" if u are going to "chicken out"
strongo makes it even sound more strong lol
was your idea not mine
I agree because it is the same push pull nonsense but you didnt play!!!
i asked him what he is so afraid of and i get a smiley in return as an answer.
he said he doesnt want to hurt me more than he did already
I wouldnt engage at all...
so i told him he better be grateful to the inventor of the smiley so he never has to open his mouth
he asked me what i want him to say, so i told him that i dont want him to say anything he can say or not say whatever you want
u like that one huh
i believe it is time to fully move on here.
come on for a man 49 yrs of age just open your fr.... mouth
dont u think
yes I think
o well i came to the same conclusion cause this is just nonsense
yes it is and you deserve more and better!
he was feeling me out for like 2 weeks but ofcourse from a distance and didnt expect that he would be faced with reality so soon
its just not right and hes in then out and then all over again without much regard for you...based only on what he needs at that time.
but just for the heck of it, why do you think he started contact again. not asking cause i am going back but for me things need to make sense to be able to digest
to see if you are still there and responsive
he has only thought of himself this whole time and now it is time for you. period end of story!
but why if u not going to take any action
ego...to know that you are still there and can have you if he wants.
incredible like we r in high school
yes but more frsutrating because he "should" be more evolved.
I must run in a minute...just want to make sure you are okay before I do.
ok and yes i am A OK!!!!
perfect. I like to hear your strength. Live you life and move on from this...there are better out there who can be mutual. This is not it.
thx as always
my pleasure as always.
have a gr8t rest of the day
and you as well. Let me know how you are doing.
Providing the utmost care and support.