Well I will explain some more, I had known him for years n 2 years ago we flirted which never have as he always took mickey out me in nice way, he has partner n young daughter n me partner, one night he came mine n we kissed etc not intercourse. I was confused when saw him next as he was quiet to me n he received an email back then but not from me n accused me, we then fell out, he moved to different site to work for bout 2 years n never talking. Then bout 4 months ago came back n at first he just stared at me loads n loads, I eventually spoke work related n he then responded but very kinda nervous, he normally very arrogant always cheats on his gf so weird. He then offered to help me with some feedback n really put effort in n emailed my home where he apologised for not realising how unwell I had been etc. he works in warehouse me office so I had to see him work related few times n he would keep me talking telling me bout when split with his gf who he slept with I thought that odd? I should go out n have fun in hotel with a man but my partner should move in etc now n bout his daughter n personal life I thought odd after just starting talking? He also stated he did not want us ever falling out again, then he went quieter again n when I saw him downstairs once he goes am going in meeting I said I don't just come n cu n told me what meeting was bout n everything very nice to me, then bout week later when chatting he said his boss had asked y am always seen chatting to him etc n said be careful as he don't want to get in trouble choose my time carefully to come down, then I was told by my manager gossip had started bout us so I sent him email from home to his work asking to meet but just as friends nothing weird as wanted to talk bout things, he didn't reply then I was on hols for bout week so sent him one again as was worried n no reply again, then next day my friend txts me saying kicked. Off he went to my manager reporting me n him n my mate turned up at mine as I had told her few things in confidence n now she thinks I lied bout stuff n me n him don't talk n he calls me stalker, it has calmed down a lot but I don't get y y did he do this y? Did he pretend all along hard to believe or what like me more I don't understand??

But do u think he actually did like me at all and when gossip started he put himself first as not normal behaviour and to say he told me no he didn't want more from which he did not is strange, people say he did like me as fancy and guess when I put in email no he hated it, but why would he do that over gossip? I haven't lost job and nor would have but was asked if we was having affair

But I guess I don't get why if he wanted to be friends with me so much and make all that effort with me, would he just drop me like that n do that, guess feel sad and feel he used me but when he was telling me to cheat on my bf with guys I thought odd, if he cared for me surely he wouldn't had done what he did to me and snitch to my manager about me?My friend who I confided stuff too also came to mine with him and asking why I lied when I didn't I said nothing to protect him but now he don't talk to me says I was a stalker n I feel upset still as he was my friend I thought??What did he want from me??? He now still stares n looks upset when he sees me, I was told by my manager we are to have no communication unless work related. He has made me look very weird n odd n nobody has ever really listened to my side nor him, also he said a girl was interested in him at work n loved to tell me details about it but then at end said he wasn't interested as he back with his gf now but just stared for ages at me. He would only talk loads to me on our own too when we was with others he would ignore me practically and always chat with my friend, I am very confused by him n I guess deep down if he wasn't with his partner me mine we prob wud had meet up but it's odd

Hi I wanted to add on that I don't want to date him as am happy but if honest I guess do u think he generally wanted to be friends from what I said or more as we have a past??? N did he snitch on me as he thought people thought something going on so to protect himself in a way??

I just feel sad and walked all over as I feel down bout it a lot and no one I can talk too. Do u think he hates me or think am weird why he did it?

But why did he do so much for me and really make effort to be friends n tell me private things in his personal life b do that?I feel he does think am weird, he said I was mental as I apparently told someone we was seeing each other when I didnt and also he said he never wanted us to fall out again but he does this??He said he told me he was premiership when he didn't

He is 32 years old n very arrogant type he thinks lot women like him but he different with me it's just strange but u say like do u mean friend or more? Do u think he wanted more n was playing safe n then when I emailed as gossip going on he blew as he didn't want people suspecting anything?? But I daren't talk as he may accuse me of stalking but I guess I feel hurt as a friend wouldn't do that surely?

Sorry I guess I wana know why he did it to me answers

Guess am confused really it don't make sense how he is as he said today why did I email loads it ruined us n he really wanted to be friends n meant what he said just confusing.

Others say he clearly had feelings do u think so?