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My husbands in house cats had to move to the garage when we married due to my allergies. The alpha male whines constantly demanding his attention--he responds every time to the extent of sleeping with them to quiet them. He insists they can't be trained..they're only animals. Judy
Submitted: 2 years ago.
Category: Relationship
Expert:  VetTechErin replied 2 years ago.

VetTechErin :

Hi there! My name is XXXXX XXXXX I would be happy to help you with your question about Hercules.

VetTechErin :

Cats can certainly be trained, but they are more difficult to train than dogs, as they are solitary creatures (they do not adhere to pack statuses). This means that training a cat is more geared towards helping a cat find new learned behaviors, as they will not strive to please a "pack leader".

VetTechErin :

In short, cats respond best to positive reinforcement, meaning that they will perform an action in order to receive a reward. In this case, they have learned that if they make enough noise, your husband will come out to the garage to give them the attention that they need.

VetTechErin :

This is partially good, because cats do need interaction and attention from humans, and they need to have a way to announce their need (like when they are crying for food to tell you that they are hungry).

VetTechErin :

However, so long as they learn that crying leads to your husband going outside to pay attention to them, they will cry anytime they want attention.

VetTechErin :

Since cats are routine creatures, it might be helpful for him to set up several times a day that he goes out at the same time to spend time with the cats.

VetTechErin :

Initially, they will be crying for him to come outside and pay attention to them, but with a little patience, a good deal of ignoring the crying (and possibly some ear plugs), they will eventually grow accustomed to him coming out at the same time every day for attention, and they will cry less when they don't expect him to be there.

Customer :

So what can be done if he is the problem and likes the interaction

Customer :

So what's the answer?

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So what's the solution?

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Unfortunately, I am unqualified to give advice on human behavior, and inter-relationship advice. I am only licensed to deal with animals. That would be more of a question geared towards our relationship experts. Would you like me to have your question moved for one of our relationship experts to handle?

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Let me opt out of the question, and move the category for you, so that you can have one of our relationship professionals available to help you!

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Customer: replied 2 years ago.
I already knew that since he had them for years before meeting me and he was never married or had any children or cared for another Human Being.
Customer: replied 2 years ago.
I told him very nicely that my daughter had the same problem and how she was retraining her cat...last night he sneaked out to the garage again when the cats weren't even crying so I asked him why he preferred to sleep with his cats rather than his wife..he yelled at me that I was done and to get out..and don't come back!
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