I hope you could help me with a problem I have.
I was dating a guy for 7 months, we broke up in January this year. I ended it first and then he ended it.
I ended it because I didn’t feel he was invested enough in the relationship and then he ended it on the same reason. We both seem to be afraid of getting hurt.
From February he contacted me again and in March starting asking me out again. For the past few months he has been really showing me that he wants to be with me, but I was afraid he would end it again. Last Saturday for some crazy reason I decided to end the relationship but he didn’t let me end it. We had a long discussion and he told me how he felt about me and asked me to give the relationship another try. So I agreed. The week was amazing. We connected and shared a wonderful week. I saw him Tuesday & Wednesday evening and Thursday he asked me to join him and his mom for dinner. I unfortunately couldn’t make it, and quickly responded by text, that I can’t make it. Friday evening I had something on with friends and on Saturday I didn’t hear from him. On Sunday I called him and he was very unhappy but didn’t say why. He just said he changed his mind about the relationship. I asked him to meet me and the next evening we met, he told me he still feels the same way about me, but he feels we not good for each other. I got the feeling he was upset over something but didn’t want to say. I told him how I feel about him and told him I still want to continue the relationship and then he said, “let’s give it a few days”. I decided to send him a text 2 days later and told him how I feel about him, I said that I think he feels the same way and if he is keen, maybe we can meet for a drink. He responded and said, “a drink will be nice, xxx” This was last night, and then we started chatting on text. This is all great. But my concern is last night, he told me that he was working very late at the hospital and he is so exhausted. And then he asked if I’ll be his nurse. So I replied back saying yes, sure. The rest of the chats were light, but all along the lines of me in a nurse outfit. This morning, I sent him a text saying “hope you didn’t work too late” and he responded “I have this overwhelming urge to rip your clothes off, is this normal” So I replied, “just googled it, yes it’s normal” And then he suggested we meet for sex over lunch time.. I said I can’t do lunch and then he sent me a message saying I can make it up to him by arriving at his house, with nothing but a coat on” I’m not sure what to make of this?? And I do want him back in my life, but not for sex! I want a committed relationship. But I don’t want to push him away. We had a wonderful relationship and yes a great sex life. But I’m just a bit confused about what’s going on. Am I making too much of this?