Hi. Welcome. I am a Licensed Master Social Worker with more than 20 years experience working with individuals and families on a variety of issues.
Time to move on! clearly this dance between the two of you will not end until one of you sticks to their guns and just cuts the cord.
He knows he can come in and out of your life because you let him.
Can you please tell me some ways to move on? He lives next door so it is kind of hard.
why did he move next door?
Good question.... I do not know he claims he likes the house because it has alot of space.
he is playing a game and it just comes down to you saying to yourself enough is enough and you deserve more....when you FULLY believe that then moving on will not be tough.
but you are not fed up enough yet and on some level enjoy it too which is why you cant move on.
respect yourself and your desires more and it will come naturally.
You are right very true. I always say let things happen naturally, you just confirmed it.
exactly. now we are on the same page.
you arent ready to move on...when you are fed up enough you will be and then you wont look back.
Thanks great answer I somewhat knew this but was scared to say it. Once again thanks!!!!!
I could give you a bullet point list such as no calls, walk past him when you see him, blah blah blah but it wont help until you are truly ready.