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im seeing a man and want to know why he calls me babe if he

 
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im seeing a man and want to know why he calls me babe if he only wants to be friends and is not looking to be in a serious relationship. he enjoys seeing and hanging with me but i feel like i'm getting conflicting signals

 



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i asked him what he was looking for in this thing i thought we had going and he said not looking to be in serious relationship but he is still calling me babe

Submitted: 342 days and 13 hours ago.
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KansasTherapist : Hello
KansasTherapist : I can see why you're confused about this.
KansasTherapist : Some people use expressions like that without meaning anything by it.
KansasTherapist : Just like some people use hon without meaning you are their honey.
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so what should i think. i've been intimate with him 3x last month and really like him but dont want to scare him away and it took alll my nerve to ask his expectations. is this just a normal response from guys

KansasTherapist : For other guys, it really would mean something to use babe.
KansasTherapist : Since he has said he just wants to be friends, I would guess that's what he means.
Customer :

so if i want to be more than friends i should just go with the flow and not look too deeply into what he is saying. i really think he has feelings for me but came off a bad relationship abt 1yr ago

KansasTherapist : You can certainly hang in there and see what happens, but you run the risk of being hurt, if it never turns into more.
Customer :

i'm used to being hurt. it seems that when im with someone as soon as they get what they want they not interested anymore

KansasTherapist : Men can be rotten like that.
Customer :

i agree. thanks for your help

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