Give me some. We have been married over 25 years. I have attended all funerals that he went to. He is shy and needs my support. But any of my relatives he has not attended any funerals. Now I need his support and he told me no. Give me a good reason for him to not attend with me for support.
Well what about the times that I attended funerals with him. I supported him. And now I need support from him and he has never attended any of mine families. The idea is to support ME not my family. And our rituals are the same.
So what reason can he have to deny me the support that should be mine without asking?
All he needs is to stand by me and hold my hand. This cousin meant alot to me and I do want to attend. He says no with no reason as to why.
Evidently it does not hurt him to see me cry. I cried my self to sleep last night. He asked is I was alright. I told him no that I was hurt and that was the end of our conversation.
Tried that too. But he only gets defensive and we end up arguing and not discussing the topic.
That is exactly how I will feel. Any suggestions?
Well, thanks for listening to me.