Hi welcome back
it sounds like more of the same to me...what are you feeling about it?
I am with you on that....he does this push pull thing with you and it is very confusing for you.
I might suggest not reaching out to him at all....does that sound familiar? :-)
at some point you will need to figure out when you want to step off the merry go round until he can fully commit
sounds to me like it is time for him to reach out without you seeking him out....this has been going on for a long while.
i know how you want to be with him and how you love him but it must come back to you and not always because you have sought it out
wait a few minutes
is that how you will respond to his text?
I like it...it is positive and shows you have not been sitting around.
so moving forward let him come to you a bit...you dont always need to be the one to initiate.
yes well that is his whole push pull thing
let him iss you a bit
yes and that is natural...you were on a high...but let him want the lovey dovey stuff too
I know you were...you love that texting nonsense. :-)
but it doesnt help him miss you...always accessible.
omg you are crazy...what did you wait 3 minutes?
I looked on the time stamp you waited 9 minutes...
yes go out and do something and then text until your fingers hurt.
come on get some confidence in yourself and know that you are worth it
and that is what I have been saying all along....i am not a game player but it is more about not always being the one to seek it out and to let him miss you and want to reach out
so whats our plan?
yes and that is what he does...so be cool and calm
you are so funny!
you can just say..having a great day since I have the day off. Hope yours is great too.
nah that wont help your cause...light and sweet..
just let it be and let him come to you on all levels
his behavior does not influence your moods....get it?
so let it be for now and let him come to you and want to be lovey dovey
yes but that cold letter wont serve you and your eventual goal....he has no clue what he wants so play it loose and dont stop your life while he firgures it out
yes play it loosey goosey
yes that is what I want to hear!
will you keep me posted?
no in five minutes respond...same thing as we said above
As I say in my house...Momma knows! :-)
ok. so let me know how it all goes.
be strong. be confident and let him miss you and pursue a bit
thats okay. dont play into that...its not a game.
yes it does!
Ok so i need to start wrapping it up....signing off for a bit. Is that okay?
well we dont want to play a game only to be true to ourselves.
and not be the only one to initiate.
relationships are about mutuality
so keep all of that in mind!
so hopefully you have found our time together again helpful. If so please click accept and then come back to me anytime you need.
I am so thrilled to hear that. so come to me anytime when you need that boost!