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If a man does not make a move towards you after 3 dates, not

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If a man does not make a move towards you after 3 dates, not even a kiss..what could that mean?
Submitted: 2 years ago.
Category: Relationship
Expert:  Coach Jen K. replied 2 years ago.

CoachJenK :

Does he respond when you hold his hand or hug him?

CoachJenK :

Is he shy in personality?

Customer:

Only one time he responded and yes he's somewhat shy.


 

Customer:
CoachJenK :

who has initiated the dates?

Customer:

He has...


 

Customer:
Customer:

He asked me out both times


 

CoachJenK :

I think tow things...hes shy and take his time or his interest is more as friendship

CoachJenK :

are you comfortable to ask him if he is interested?

Customer:

I asked him, he said yes. But his actions shows otherwise.


 

Customer:

When he away on business trips he never calls me :-(

Customer:
CoachJenK :

well i dont believe he would say yes if it werent true. I think then you can relay on that he is shy and takes things slow...which isnt such a bad thing.

CoachJenK :

well it has been 3 dates so maybe this goes along with the other stuff...he is not rushing into things and doesnt feel comfortable yet to call you while away or progress with intimacy. But it sounds like oyu like him who why not wait it out and see how it all goes?

Customer:

I do like him alot. I do not want to seem desparate the one that's always calling/texting.


 

Customer:
CoachJenK :

so pull back a bit and let him come to you and if he doesnt and that style does not work for you then you can see how that feels for you and what you want

Customer:

That's what I plan to do...Thanks alot.


 

Customer:
CoachJenK :

my pleasure. come back anytime and ask for me.

Customer:

I sure will :-)


 

CoachJenK :

Good luck with it!

CoachJenK :

Please click accept if satisfied

Customer:
Customer:

Yes, I am....thanks again.

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