I have been seperated for over a year and paperwork finalizing my divorce is done and ready to be signed. I met a women recently and she is concerned she is a rebound girl. How do I convince her that is not the case. I really enjoy spending time with her and would like it to work out.
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Did this woman give you any reasons as to why she thinks that she is a "rebound" girl?
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Can you please answer my question above ---has this woman given you any specific reasons as to why she believes that she might be a "rebound" relationship?
Yes she said that she still felt I was angry about my divorce. We went on a couple dates several months ago and then my life got stressful and we didn't connect again until 2 weeks ago. We have been on 3 dates since. She feels like I am suddenly interested in making the relationship work, but the gap in our relationship and my not keeping in contact with her for 2 months is something that has raised some flags. She says she is not mad at me and wants to see if things can work, but I am getting mixed messages from her and the last date we went on she expressed concerns of this being a rebound relationship for me.
Nothing specific other than my seemingly suddenly interested in seeing her and appearing to move quickly
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I think this is good. I don't want to come across too intense but wanted to let her know I cared for her, enjoyed spending time with her and wanted to explore deaper relationship. We have not gotten too physical but have kissed. However the other night when I picked her up I went to kiss her and she turned her cheek then end of the night kissed me.