Hello. I am a clinical psychologist and a relationship expert on Just Answer. It sounds like you are looking for a fortune teller to tell you what the answer is, but the truth about relationships and life in general is that you have free will to make things happen or not happen. I believe that while people certainly come into our lives unexpectantly and likely for a purpose, we cannot sit back and hope that the universe aligns so that they stay in our lives. As you know, relationships take work - hard work. If you want to speak with her then call her. I'm not sure what the lawsuit is about - whether it is your spouse suing you in a divorce matter or your ex-lover in some other matter. Either way, I encourage you to make decisions that will be helpful to you in the long run and are not just based on the immediate gratification. Goodluck and take care.
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