Ive tried doing that. Ive said to her we can out some time all together, i even offered going to a theme park. Ive met the kid but only once because of how often i see her. Because of work and her having to take and pick up her kid from school she cant stop at my house throughout the week as she needs to be with her kid at her mums house, so i only get to see her at weekends. iv tried asking to come round even on a weekday but she says she can't but like even on a weekend theres always an excuse i mean i can understand if she didn't want to be with me thats why she don't want to see me but why does she keep ringing me.