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Should I even go as far in my txt to say that I understand where you're coming from, you've been hurt b4 and you got scared of what was happening with us and you didn't want to get hurt again. Trust me I was scared a little too. I know trust is earned and I would like to earn that trust cause you can trust me not to hurt you cause i'm not like those who have. I'm just going to take it slow with you and take a step back and give you your space, not to say that i don't want to still see you but i'll leave that up to you when we can hang out again. Well something like that, or should i just go with, I understand where you're coming from and things went too fast, you don't want a serious relationship yet, and i'm just going to take it slow with you and step back to give you your space, not to say that i don't want to still see you but i'll leave that up to you when we can hang out again.
I do really like this girl and i've been out on some really shitty dates with others b4. I just don't want to screw this up with a bad txt either. The hole waiting and giving her space thing i can do. My words might come out wrong and give her the wrong idea.
Just wanted to get some more advice about what I can be doing to help improve my chances on dating this woman i've been discussing with you. I haven't talked to her yet through txt or anything. I know you said Friday but i thought i would seem like i was trying to get involved with her weekend and that that would come off as desperate or needy. So i'm going to contact her in the next couple days and that will have been over a week now since our last conversation through txt. I talked to my friend who is a mutual friend of us both. She told me that "Heather" said I fell for her too fast and that that was an issue as well. I had similar thoughts towards her, that she was falling for me to fast. I want to know if there is anything i can do or say that can show that that wasn't the case and that i'm just as laid back as she is and willing to go as slow as she wants. She is a very outgoing person that is always on the go and spontanuous, just to give you an idea of her personality. She likes sports, music, really anything that has to do with a social outing. She likes to do athletic things but doesn't play any sports. I'm saying all this cause maybe it will help with your answer towards what I can do. I've kept her off my mind but not completly, cause well its hard since i really liked the connection we had going for us. What do you think I should do in light of this new info. I don't want to scare her further away but i don't want to just give up and move on. I like her and i've dated lots in the past and never shared a conection on so many levels as i did with her. It may seem through my words here that i was so in "love" with her, but i assure you that isn't the case. I know what i want and she displayed many personality qualities that i hold in high regard, and i lked that we could talk about anything and laugh and just generally have a blast together while also being able to have our own lives and have fun without eachother. So again, whats the best thing i can do or say to help increase my odds of seeing her again?