We have 4 kids 18, 16, 10,& 5 yo. I am 36 been married for 19 yrs together 21years.
When I think of a great relationship I think of feeling some spark when I think about or look at the person. Being very honest and open. Having a good sex life and the desire to spend time with them. Someone that looks at me and I can see the love for me in their eyes. Not always having to ask what's wrong why do you look and act like you are mad, sad, or whatever all the time. Someone that will make me feel good about myself and there for what life throws at us.
We don't even sleep togther most of the time.
Not completely ruled out counseling. I feel like in a way that if the kids are grown and out of the house then I would have already ended it. I mean I do care about him and would still want to be friends but I don't have faith in having a real relationship. I don't mind the questions at all