Communication is definitely a big issue with us. I am wondering what you think of our unique living arrangements and the other issues I described.
Thanks Psychlady. He is geographically distant but we are in constant communication. I am a single mom and a career woman so it isnt awful not having a tremendous amount of time with him.
I think I made a mistake by letting him move in. I love him and I know he loves me and my daughter. He treats her well and takes great care of both of us when he is home. The financial arrangements are a bit unfair and grate on me sometimes.
There are definitely compatibility issues. But there is also a great deal of love, affection, humor, and fun.
But we just cant seem to talk without these big blow ups. He definitely has a quick temper. It scares me sometimes. And despite all of these issues I still cant imagine my life without him...well, at least some of the time. Sometimes I think it would be a relief to start over...
How do you know when to stay and work on things or when to cut your "losses?"