We live in the same city Oslo
have two small children 3 and 2 (nearly)
we havent had anything physical for a while, son always in our bed etc
My girlfriend has said we need a crisis meeting, in the last couple of months, exactly when I lost a project at work, the same day!
now we are in emergency , she has hit me with the bombshell. I am not sure I can love you back, really struggling with this commment
i suggested i move out, then the next day say no, I want to make several changes to make things better, cook more, help with washing clothes, even brought her tea in bed this morning which went down very well
we will go to a therapist on Friday, I booked it, I just hope I havent left it too late to do all of these things, believe I wasnt exactly sitting around doing nothing before.
trying to fight for our family, am giving her the space she is asking for, says I choke her if I keep sending texts of love, ok will let her have 'all' the space she wants.
would love to hear your comments now I have given more information