Tell me more about this exercise dance class...is that something she is into?
I know she'd love this because she loves dancing. And I kinda figured, it might surprise her
the class is called "zoomba dancing"
That sounds like a lot of fun and are you ready to let loose and Zumba?
I think it would be hysterical
I think Zumba and then dinner sounds lovely.
so should i make plans with her tonight for thurs then?
yes. It shows you had a great time with her on Friday and want to see her again.
awesome. Fyi, i dont consider myself to be a great dancer by any means lol, I'm just very open minded to trying new things and new experiences
Even funnier then because Zumba is different and the fact that you are willing and willing to be silly will endear her to you even more. Go with it, let loose and have fun!
and it shows her you take an interest in her interests! Nothing better than that.
thanks for the words of encouragement. When I make plans with her, should I empasise this is a date?
because that's what I want to do
yes absolutely. "I woulld love to take you on a real date, and I have planned something fun. I hope you will join me and help me in a zumba class and then accompany me to dinner where you can laugh at all my moves from Zumba."
im actually wondering if i should surprise her, just tell her to bring some workout clothes lol
That could be fun too! I like your creativity.
and some clothes to change back into for dinner. You will be sweaty.
alrite, sounds good! For future reference, what should my date and call/txt frequency be with her?
That will develop once the interest is apparent to both of you.
I've never had a relationship before, so that's why I ask so many questions $
I hope you don't mind :)
if you see her on thursday and during dinner all is going well, ask her out for Saturday if you feel she is receptive.
I dont mind at all...I am thrilled to be a support for you
and wehn we follow our heart it is usually a great guide.
Thanks Jen, you're a sweetheart
thank you. I enjoy being here for you.
I cant wait to hear all about Zumba. something tells me you are going to have some silly stories for me.
something tells me you're right =p
ok. don't call her too late tonight.
I won't. Thanks for your help once again
my pleasure as always. Good luck!
Come back anytime!
So I asked her out on date and basically she rejected my offer and told me she sees me as more like a brother. I told her that was no problem and I was just curious. I value our friendship more than anything in the world to let this get in the way. She was very happy I said that. Even though this was not the answer I wanted, I can not begin to tell you how relieved I am. It feels like a weight has been lifted off of my shoulders! Thank you so much for all your help, and if I ever need any advice in this category somewhere down the line, you'll be the first person I go to :)
I responded in your other post. Let me know you got that.