I agree with your friends. This is not healthy for you and won't be until you leave it alone. She would not have moved near her ex unless she was more than a little involved with him. She sounds like someone who likes to have multiple relationships possibly to feed her own ego. A relationship can't be built on lies. Even though her lies are to someone else it says everything about her character. It has been my experience that if someone cheats on their partner they will have no trouble cheating on you. I think you are a convenience and I think she will have no trouble ending your relationship when it is convenient for her. Do yourself a favor and find someone who is dedicated to you. Don't try to fit yourself around her life choices. You need to believe that you deserve better. Until you believe it she won't believe it. Listen to your friends and run.
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Well, this is what I am hearing from fiends and actually she told me that I deserve better and she can't commit to me the way she should. My problems is that I get these txts and calls out of the blue, and I try to be nice and respond, but then I find myslef getting emotionally invloved again. I received a Valetines card, which confused me a lot.
Is this just to keep me into it?
OK. I have one last question for the future. So I met her at a hotel bar and we had a great conversation. After a while a guy showed up who she had invited. It tunrns out he was a passenger from the flight she was attending. After a while I walked off and she asked me for my number which I gave her.
She texted me at 3AM and told me the guy was boring. After telling it a friend, she told me that should have been a clear sign of her character. I confronted her when we were together, and she said she never had sex with him. But could I ever trust her?