You can only address this to a minimal level. Jealousy and control is based on insecurity on the part of the person that is jealous. They compensate their feelings of insecurity by trying to control their partner. By controlling their behavior or clothes they are really trying to control their feelings of insecurity. You can work with him but he has to change his own deficits. The problem is that many times the jealous person convince the partner it is their problem and they don't want to change anything. If they aren't willing to change then the partnership is going to continue to be strained. When someone is insecure it fractures the basis of the relationship because there is no trust. You can visit a self help aisle together and work on his insecurities but he has to have an open mind. You will never do everything right so he has to change so that he has a healthy relationship. Control tends to get better not worse. Tell him you need change!
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