How would you feel expressing yourself openly about how painful it is to be there right now. Would they understand?
I think they would. They were told they wouldn't be able to have kids and now they have 2! They went 4 years with thinking they wouldn't be able to have kids.
Well, I think this is the way to handle it. They sound like they will understand based on their experience as well. You are entitled to feel how you do and I am so sorry for your pain.
They know we are struggling with infertility too.
yes and so many people ask and say inappropriate things and if you feel you need to shield yourself from it now then you should...absolutely acceptabel.
Thanks Coach. I'll express this to them. It's very stressful that we are going through the infertilty now.
yes I understand. You can spend more time with me here if you want to process some of that too. I am here to support you.
Do you think they'll get mad if I express this to them? They know we would attend otherwise.
I would hope they would have compassion and i think they will especially if you discuss how painful it is for you right now.
Okay, I think they will too. They are great people. I
and so are you. Please keep the faith as I believe it will happen for you!