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I got an odd question I went on bussiness trip with a friend

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I got an odd question I went on bussiness trip with a friend he said he liked me just as friends but he stole my black dress shoes why now we are mad at each other and do not talk do you think he be back
Submitted: 5 years ago.
Category: Relationship
Expert:  TherapistJen replied 5 years ago.

CoachJenK :

What? I think i am as confused as you are.

JACUSTOMER-lhnv9io3- :

I know right

CoachJenK :

tell me more!

JACUSTOMER-lhnv9io3- :

Well I was friends with this guy six months and he was a bussiness partner so we stayed in same room same bed nothing happen he said he liked me as friends only but held me in bed kissed held hands seen me 3 times a week i know he liked me he says he is like this with everyone i do not belive and I woke up next morning my shoes were gone no housekeeping went in there I turned the room upside down and he helped me look but he was not trying to hard so I know he has them but we are not talking so why do you think he took them

JACUSTOMER-lhnv9io3- :

he is not gayor cross dresser he is a hot looking guy i have a pic if you want to see

JACUSTOMER-lhnv9io3- :

he is a stripper but a greatguy

JACUSTOMER-lhnv9io3- :

that is his pic and he works with kids too

JACUSTOMER-lhnv9io3- :

i talked to many people maybe he liked me and kept it i do not know and too embrass to ask him

CoachJenK :

does he have a women's shoe fetish?

JACUSTOMER-lhnv9io3- :

no that is what is so weird

JACUSTOMER-lhnv9io3- :

so are you psychic

JACUSTOMER-lhnv9io3- :

I need help

JACUSTOMER-lhnv9io3- :

lol

JACUSTOMER-lhnv9io3- :

do you see he coming back to me honestly

CoachJenK :

not a psychic. Is that what you want..to speak with a psychic?

JACUSTOMER-lhnv9io3- :

no lol just need advice lol

JACUSTOMER-lhnv9io3- :

what do you think

CoachJenK :

I think it is quite possible that he likes you and wanted a piece of you.

CoachJenK :

I would ask him straight out

JACUSTOMER-lhnv9io3- :

i cant

CoachJenK :

ok why?

JACUSTOMER-lhnv9io3- :

he says just as a friend but that is before he knew we was going to quit talking is there any other explanation

JACUSTOMER-lhnv9io3- :

also i told him in a text today i was paying him back for trip cause i lied to him a lot and he got mad but

JACUSTOMER-lhnv9io3- :

he text me back in a ,inute thanking me for paying him back so what do u think

JACUSTOMER-lhnv9io3- :

he text back within minute

CoachJenK :

I think the tow of you have a dynamic that isnt so healthy for either one of you. I would maybe take a step back. Stealing is never healthy.

JACUSTOMER-lhnv9io3- :

yes that is what he said

JACUSTOMER-lhnv9io3- :

but

JACUSTOMER-lhnv9io3- :

he answer me back in a minute what do u honestly think

JACUSTOMER-lhnv9io3- :

why would a man steal womens shoes

CoachJenK :

what does answering in a minute mean to you?

CoachJenK :

For me? two things..he wanted a pice of you and couldnt ask for it...or has a shoe fetish.

JACUSTOMER-lhnv9io3- :

that he likes me im not sure he answered quickly like he was waiting to hear from me

CoachJenK :

it seems like you want this man to like you even if he stole your shoes.

JACUSTOMER-lhnv9io3- :

yes i dont care he stole them i want them back lol

CoachJenK :

thats funny!

JACUSTOMER-lhnv9io3- :

yea i know lol

CoachJenK :

i think you need to move on and let this go. It is not a healthy place for either of you

CoachJenK :

I am here if you need more support.

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