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First, I would like to say I am sorry that you are experiencing such a stressful situation in your relationship.
The best advice I can give you is what I would do if I were in your shoes.
Thank you again, it has been hard
This man you are seeing is not being there for you.
Regardless of the circumstances, you are in this relationship because he should *complement* your life.
Instead, he has been a problem in it.
What I would do is decide to take two weeks for myself, that is, two weeks of no contacting this man.
Be in your own world, and rely on the support of your friends and family.
Before you do this, however, I would send a message simply telling him that you are taking this time to yourself.
He should respect this and not contact you in this time.
At the end of the two weeks, you can reevaluate the relationship with a clearer mind and a stronger heart.
You may realize that your life is indeed better without this neglectful person.
Do you have any questions for me?
I will find it hard not to contact him but i suppose that is only natural.
Yes, I had my own partner leave for the weekend.
It was difficult the first day, but after that, I grew stronger.
I reevaluated where things were going, and I think much more practically. I feel better for it.
I do hope I have helped you today. If so, please kindly click Accept. I urge you to take care, because you deserve the best <3
Thank you for your time
Thank you. Good luck!