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I am so sorry for the difficulty you are experiencing in your relationship. Such problems are always very stressful.
The best advice I can give is what I would do if I were in your shoes. I would take two weeks for myself, not initiating any contact. I would allow him to come to me, and see how much he cares for me by him doing so. In these two weeks, I would grow stronger by relying on friends and family for support. At the end of this time period, you may feel better without this person, who is not providing what you need and deserve. However, you may reconnect with him then if you wish and reevaluate.Also, I do believe you can be your best advisor, as well. Just think: if someone you cared deeply about, your best friend, child, or sibling, was experiencing your problems, what would you tell him/her?
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