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I am so sorry for the difficulty you are experiencing in your relationship. Such problems are always very stressful.
From hearing your account,
I would harness any resources I could to find a closer job that meets your standards. These two variables of distance and income will have one win over the other, but it is up to you to choose which job best suits your needs.
As a last resort, if you are unable to find such a job, it is clear to me that you need to look at your priorities. What is more important to you? Being with this person, or sticking with the job you have? It is a difficult dilemma, but one priority does outweigh the other, and a decision must be made.
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