I was with my boyfriend for 4 yrs and after the christmas holidays we got into a serious arguement about him being to posessive over me! He was also upset because I spent most of my time with family rather than with him. However, he had his children and i felt he should spend the time with them and not me. That's what start the arguement and we ended up breaking up. I have talked to him twice since then but all I hear is the anger in his voice and I want to know if it's really over or do we just need time apart?