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Hello, thank for joining me. Please forgive any typos as I get very immersed in my work with you and sometimes my brain goes faster than my fingers.
This woman sounds very confused and somewhat manipulative. Her dishonesty is also striking to me. She had other ways of behaving to choose from. she could have chosen the straightforward path and sent you an email letting you know she was thinking of you, but rather she chose to create a fake account on FB to begin a dialogue with you. This does not say much for her abilities to be honest in a relationship whether it be friendship or something more intimate. She is currently involved with someone else but reaching out to you...again more dishonesty. You sound like a gentleman and were willing to accept this and even tried to support her though this space, but now she is pushing you away leaving you confused. There are reasons the relationship didn't work the first time and it doesn't sound like she is in a better space with her abilities to be straightforward and honest. The questions you need to ask yourself are is this the type of person you want in your life on any level? How willing are you to tolerate this kind of behavior? Are you looking to be the guy she comes to when she needs something but then shuts you out when you respond in a caring way? To be blunt here....I think you want and deserve more. Please let me know how else I can support you. My goal is to help you through this space.