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have been seeing a guy for 6 weeks now, we were exclusive....im

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have been seeing a guy for 6 weeks now, we were exclusive....im 44 hes 48..got a text from him today saying.."hey Baby how is your day going so far?"...I didnt respond and 20 minutes later I get another text from his phone saying.."Hey sweetie how is your day going so far?".......so i text back.."its going ok,going to lunch. why the 2 text"??
his response was.."Thought it was just 1 text........so I text back.."different text?hmmmm ok...wow".
Then his response was.."not sure what you recieved I only sent 1 text..I deleted all my previous text to free up space.Maybe that generated the double text"".
so then I text him .." right cause thats what fukn phones do...there are 2 different text,20 minutes apart"".
then he called and left a voicvemail saying he didnt know what I was talking about,that how did i even know it was from his phone, and that hes confused and he thought we had a better understanding that that"......then anothere voicemail came in saying" this will be my last call to you, i dont know whats triggering you to think im doing something, the balls in your court now, i cant make you talk to me your going to do what your going to do anyways"
He totally is trying to make me the one that did something,Right??????
then I get a text message from him saying...." Ok, I just went over the texts that i sent and I noticed that I did send 2 texts asking how your day was going and yes based on the time stamp they were 20 minutes apart.I hadnt realized that i had done that,and I apologize.But I assure you that I was not and am not trying to play games with you here.I love you too much for that and would never do that to you.It was a simply an oversight that I hope you dont let destroy what we have developed..Anywasy... hope to hear back,if not im assuming that you and I are finished.All the sentiments with the christmas cards and all the other words of admiration wasnt njust talk...they were from the heart.That is why it hurts so much that something like this has been such a disruption.Its like evrything said previously doesnt hold true longer.....

to me this is total manipulation or an attemt at it, cause he was caught.....am I right?????
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