Involving family depends on the situation. For instance if he was using drugs it is quite common to call on all the resources such as family and get support from everyone. However if this is about conflict that the two of you were having as a couple then you were out of line. Calling family is usually not a bad idea in general. The reason is when the problem has been resolved or hasn't been resolved family is going to side with family and you are going to be the odd man out. You may be seen as involving other people in a couple's problems and they will still have their relationship as though nothing will happen. I don't know the circumstances and this has a bearing on the situation. You probably meant well but you risked the response which you got. Unless he is using drugs or something like that settle conflict between you and your partner. You meant well anyway
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The issue is delicate in nature but serious. It is possible sex addiction. Not an easy issue to discuss. Even with him! I think he will deny it to me. I am sure he will. But signs point to this and I am alarmed. Odd behaviors have been escalating. I am ready to bail out of relationship but I don't want him to put himself in harmful situations. I do still love him. Any more thoughts on this? THanks much!