You feel so frantic right now probably due to the fact that you are in limbo. It is very uncomfortable to not know what is going to happen. To add to this you do not really have the control here because she is the one struggling. You know what you want. You have to let her come to her own conclusions as difficult as that is. If you rush her she may do something that isn't the appropriate choice and you could break up further down the line. Or she could decide to move on. Give her space and some time. If she wants to settle down it will happen. You are going to need to invest your time in being patient. You can't do anything until she decides what you want. You can't convince her of what the right choice is. Let her decide.
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Don't resume this relationship based on it being awkward or because of what others will think. You both have to make your decision based on what is the right choice for you. You should try to resolve this if your job is at stake. I would give it a few more days. Then approach her with the fact that you can't stay in limbo.
It is great that you aren't telling everyone. If she decides it's over then you just tell others that it didn't work out. If they ask give them a brief reason to settle their curiosity. You don't owe them an explanation.
I would call over the weekend probably Sunday and see if she has thought about this.