It sounds like he is going through turmoil and doesn't want a relationship. What you do with that information is up to you. I think I would have to pull back and consider that the timing is very poor. If he wants a relationship he will contact you. It will be hard but so is this. What you are going now seems forced and unproductive. He knows where you are and how to reach you. Let him get himself together and start fresh. When you force this situation you run the risk of it being over. You will also know that he is motivated to rather than responding to your communications. Give him a few weeks and then try contacting him. Respond but don't pursue.
Please press accept