It sounds like your actions have really been misinterpreted. Considering all the information I would suggest that you leave her alone. Sometimes a relationship can get off to such a shaky start that it is best to just move on and cut your losses. This is a situation that she is going to have reservations about so it is best to just move on. She may in the future decide that it was all a misunderstanding but at this point you will only make it worse by pursuing this. She may change her mind. You never know. But you need to leave the decision up to her. She went to some trouble to tell you to leave her be so I would follow that advice. You don't want to frighten her any further. She may speak to you but not for the time being.
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