Thanks for the input. I replied back filling him in a little, told him i live with my fiance, no kids.. I mentioned some things we had in common, like music we both listened to and fashion--i asked him if he still plays drums? it was a big part of his life and whay i went out with--part of the appeal. he sent this reply...
Congratulations!!! You're going to get married. That's fantastic! You're fiancé must be a great man. I know you would never settle for anyone who didn't connect with you on a deep level. "No kids just pets", does that mean no kids ever or just for now? I would like to have kids, or at least one girl. I don't why, whenever I imagine having a kid its always a girl. Sounds like you you've had a terrific journey so far. Wow, you've accomplished so much. I always knew you would be successful. Some of the things I always admired about you were your fearlessness and your open minded and creative spirit. I did see a lot of exciting and beautiful things while in the Navy. But the most beautiful thing was also ironically the scariest thing and that was the the ocean it self. At night all you can see are the stars and moon and ocean as far as the eye can see. It an amazing sight to see. I haven't picked up a drum stick in 14 years. I still like rock and roll, but I listen to the early fifties cats like Little Richard, Chuck Berry, Fats Domino..... Do you still like Maddona? I think she's going to sing at the Super Bowl this year. I thought about you from time to time over the years. The time we had together was really special to me. Still today there is a little of you in me. I can't help it...you were my girl...I loved you. I've often wondered if you truly knew how much I loved and cared for you. My mom passed away on dec 15 and it changed me in a good and profound way. I had to contact the people that made an impact in my life. You were first on my list. I hope you and your fiancé have a lifetime of love.
I sent a reply back saying Im sorry his mother passed away and i did love and care for him as well when we were in the relationship and i thanked him for being there for me.
He hasnt replied back so maybe he has closure with that.... I dont know what to make of all this, what do you think?
Judging by his emails we have 0 in common today but the past. im sure he knows that as well... to me it sounds like he never got over me,i feel bad about this, i assumed he moved on,, the reason why i broke up with to begin with is because i went off to college, and had alot of goals, which he didnt have, I also met a new guy at the time who was more like me... i dont know it sounds like his life didnt turn out well... maybe he'll leave me alone now?