You could be acting foolishly but I wouldn't say you are a fool. I don't think it is as clean cut as he has it made with you. Right now the resources are clearly on your side. He may be finding it difficult finding himself after football and doesn't want to admit it. It is common for a woman when there is no give and take to feel resentful. That is what resentment is. Your only choice is to bring this up and tell him that you feel resentful and need more of an effort on his part. He may be mad at first but this plan isn't working. Nothing will change if you don't bring this up. Do it in a respectful way. If nothing changes then you know you have some choices to make. It is okay to stop the gravy train though. I don't think you are blind. You just wanted to give him a chance. But now time's up. Talk to him now and pull back on the monetary benefits. You will see his plan very quickly.
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