It sounds like a good guy but you do appear to be over thinking things. If you are too persistent you are going to scare him off. Relax and try to let the relationship happen naturally. Two months is not long enough to do all of this critiquing. He asked you about Christmas so that means you are on his mind and he is considering a future. You have to consider that he is a very busy guy and doesn't have the ability to have a lot of phone calls and personal contact. Be fair but not obsessive. He will probably be able to really bond with you as time goes on and you will see an improvement. Right now I would not make an issue out of it. If you remind him that you need a lot of contact he may think the relationship is too much work. I say if he is asking about Christmas you are on the right track. Go with the flow.
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