Before getting involved in another relationship, there are two books that are must reading to help you find the man who will move the moon and stars to be with you.
The first is Temptations of the Single Girl This book should be required reading for women before they start to date. You'll never get fooled again by a man after reading this and following her suggestions. (ignore the cheesy cover--it's a great book!)
The second book is a bigger commitment. It's seven weeks of daily reading and writing and self-exploration. It will help you get clear on what you really want from life and relationships, and increase your self-esteem. Don't just read it all the way through. Do it the way it was designed--daily--and you'll be amazed at how much clearer this all seems at the end of the process. Calling In The One: 7 Weeks to Attract the Love of Your Life.
More on your original answer, he did not know coming over that I still held any feelings for him, I was the one to end things over ten yrs ago, we were young and i wasn't ready. He begged to have me back, back then and I refused and he has been looking for me ever since.
Txting him in no way was code for me to come over with beautiful flowers and start what I thought at the time was us getting back together. That was all him, I was freshly single and had no thoughts about being with anyone.
More on my first response, he also told me how he had dated throughout the yrs we were apart and the girls were nice enough mostly, but they always had one thing missing..they weren't me. Again, if he went to such lengths to find me etc, why do this to me if everything he said was honest and true?
I am sorry I guess we are missing each other on points that I am trying to get across and don't know how to be more specific. I in no way solicited his actions.
I guess I will just have to figure this guy out on my own. I am sorry you went o so much trouble to answer. I am not satisfied and do not want to give payment. Thank you for your time.