If she wants to break up start acting like it. You are dropping her to the airport to meet a new guy. You are asking her questions about this situation when you have to find closure. It doesn't matter if they will work out. She is breaking up with you. He is not the problem only the symptom. It isn't about them. She has made her intentions clear and she is moving on (even if it is too quickly). Take your focus off her trip and onto making sure you are okay. Don't contact her. Start taking steps to accept that she wants to go. You have no reason to call. If she isn't your girlfriend then let her go. You can't get her to understand anything because she is emotionally detaching. So you have to find what helps you close this relationship out and disengage too. She obviously is taking great steps to move on so don't grasp for straws. It's a horrible situation but you have to be okay too and stop living for her to come back.
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thanks, she will come back in 2 weeks time and we will be in the same house untill she finds new accomodation. I dont know how will i deal with this.
such a painful time for me. i can see the signs that she still thinks about me, often calling, caring, cooking for me,hugging me, asking me confused questions. But then all of a sudden she gets in mood swings. and then i get little voilent too.
Any suggestions for this
This is a toxic relationship. If you can't be together don't be. One of you has to have the courage to end it and living together is just complicating that. That is why you are angry. You know the relationship is negative but you both are participating in the facade. You have to sit down for the sole purpose of making the arrangements necessary to separate. If you allow her to abuse you she will and vice versa. The pain of breaking up is bad but living together is worse. You are behaving as a couple without the benefits. Make these arrangements. If you are violent you need to do this today. There is nothing that should allow you to be violent. That part is your responsibility to end this behavior. Make a plan to be two separate individuals.
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understand, now there she is overseas. Gone on Friday and has already called me thrice with a very loving and caring tone.I responded nicely too.
This just conflicts me so much, that why is she doing this??? What do you reccon??
I am trying to be very careful, she calls me now everyday. Today i saw 7 missed calls on my phone whilst i was in the gym. And then later she called today and spoke to me.
I really dont know what to do?? Should i ask her to stop playing with me or any suggestions??? what should i tell her?