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I think the answer to your question is clear and I suspect you have a good idea of the answer already.
It seems that your exbf wants to have his cake and eat it too......
As long as he can be with you while staying with someone else he is getting everything HIS way!! AND if you allow this to continue, he will continue to take advantage of the situation as long as it suits him.
If he wants to be with you and you want to be with him, you should spell out your conditions or boundaries for this. Explain that you are going to need some things if he wants to have any kind of relationship with you and tell him what exactly you want.
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