Hi, I'd like to help you with your question.
Before I can answer, I need to clarify your question. Are you asking about how to reconnect with your girlfriend or are you unsure of how to proceed?
The best thing you can do is to act trustworthy. You need to prove to her that you can be trusted. But words often don't mean much when your actions in the past say differently. So showing her is the only way. Allow her to know where you are and with whom. Keep in close contact with her. Be open with your feelings and volunteer information about yourself. Allow her to ask anything she needs to about you and your past. It may be painful for her, but honesty and openness is necessary for trust to build.
i have tried all the above and i have been very honest with her, too honest i think. i told her about my past and how i was, and i am that person no more, but she still keeps bringing my past. we are very similiar in personalities and everything , we click on every level, but this trust issue is really hindering my relationship with her.
i spent every moment with cause it feels right, yet for the smallest thing. she freaks out and doesnt trust me.
I understand. I would like to continue to work on this issue with you. Please accept the original question so we can keep working on this. Thank you!