First you have to figure out what you both want. If he wants you to "go away" then it won't matter what you do to mend this relationship. You have to figure out if his mind is made up regarding this relationship. If you are dependent and this is a deal breaker then you have to find out if this is the issue. It is too difficult to fix an issue when he doesn't know what that is. He has to isolate the issue if you want to stay together. Dependency can be a common issue in relationships. This issue can be resolved by communication and compromise. With compromising on some of your behavior then you can both benefit from just single change. Approach him about this and tell him that you want to work on your behavior to benefit both of you. Nothing is solved by guessing. So sit down with him and really figure out what would help for you to feel secure and him to feel happy. Have this discussion before it is too late.
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