Thank you for you answer...it is helpful
However, I do love this man and am willing to do what I can to make this work.
He continues to call me every day. we do not have any definate plans
to see each other this week
I suggested dating for another six months and see how it goes and then make a shared decision. That would enable us to work on any issues.. He refused to
think about that but insisted he would know this week if we end or continue this
relationship. I thought it more helpful if we spendt time working of ourselfs
and our relationship....is there anything to I can do right now ? He offers no reason for why he would consider ending our relationship.
**I cannot find my additional question to you...so again I am repeating this entry
Thank you for your hellpfulness. It is very helpful to me if I can understand the "why's"
Prior to the last couple of weeks he did not display irrational thinking or multiple dating.
I am having difficulty believing the change in behaviors in someone who I respected and cared so deeply for.
I asked him if I should now move my few items out of his home. He replied no but
continues the same behaviors. Is he waiting for me to close this relationship ?
And why would he put it one me to do ? I am having difficulty in closing a relationship with some that I care for so deeply. I am aware that I still have hope (it's my nature)
what do I say to him ? How do I close this so that both of us have a sense of closure?
And if there is anything I can say that might reach him ?